O.P.A. = Other Peoples Attitudes | teslastemptress's Blog

                 I know now why I lay in bed this morning determined not to get up. I HAD a bad case of  O.P.A.: OTHER PEOPLES ATTITUDES. The more I lay there thinking about it, the more ticked off I started to become. Don't get me wrong, I really do love my friends and family. It is just that lately they have all been much more  negative than usual. Today, for my own sanity I had to change my attitude by ignoring the negative attitudes of all the others. I became determined to have a great day. I got up from bed and threw on some cut offs and a half t-shirt. The weather was amazingly beautiful and I headed out for a run. While I jogged in the warm breezy sunshine I started thinking about the last few days. Then the Last few weeks… and then I thought about the last few months.  I came to realize that I am getting really tired of negative people and their attitudes. That O.P.A. (other peoples attitudes), were having a negative effect on my day.

                I try to have a great day everyday. I start my days happy and want to end them happy. I feel that life is just too short to spend in a crappy mood. I am truly happy just to get up and be alive every day. Most of my day is spent in service to others in order to make their lives better, more cheerful etc. I actually plan out nice things to do for my loved ones. I am crazy that way. I have been determined to be this way, and I work hard to stay in a pleasant mood for the most part. I really try to look for the good in every situation, everywhere, everyday. I actually LIKE being happy! I love to smile and I just adore seeing grumpy, frowny faces that brighten up and shine when they see me smiling at them and they smile back. Just as I like being happy and am determined to stay in a good mood, there are many that I love and adore that are determined to be unhappy and to stay in a crappy mood day after day after day. For the last two weeks  O.P.A. has almost swayed me to their side. Almost. I used to jump out of bed early in the morning, just so I could read my emails. As I was dumping the usual ton of junk mail, I would get excited with each little tidbit of fun from all of those in my loving circle. Lately, all I get is Bad news and those “you won’t believe this…”emails. Or worse, everyone’s kid is selling something this time of year…So now I just don’t turn on the pc first thing anymore. I turn on some tunes and I go and work out.

                I ran this morning and it felt great. I came home and shut off all of my phones. Stupid me, I get my facebook mail sent to one of my phones for those who just have to reach me to complain about something. I set it up that way because I keep hoping that a sexy hottie will send me a naughty text or a slutty hot voice mail, sigh… but they never do. I spend my days planning fun, sexy hot stuff to make others days happier and to go smoother. When I want an empowered day, I just have to unplug from everyone else and plug in some super hot dance tunes.

                After working out for about an hour, I wanted to wear less and do more. So I lathered my body with lotion and put on my skimpy little black bikini and headed out to my side yard to wash my car. I know that the mailman, UPS, and FEDEX guys all had smiles on their faces as they passed by. I am also quite happy to report that our local and state police are doing their jobs quite thoroughly in beefing up patrols in my area. That goes double for the guys in blue that know me. Thanks Guys! I had my windows open, my big dogs in the yard and the dance tunes cranked. I just LOVE to wash my car in a bikini and heels while dancing around with my hose going full blast. I never once checked a phone, text or cyber anything.  By midmorning I was in this wonderful mood, and I wanted to keep this feeling all day.  I finally went inside and took care of that… mmmmmmmmm…**itch** I managed to get just the edge off and I headed for the shower and a wonderful “full blast” fun blow out! With that freshly comed look, and dressed in a sweet short jean skirt and flirty red  halter top, I took my favorite dog and we went out to the beach for the day!

I kicked off my skirt and top and romped in my red silk panties and bra. Who would know if they were underwear? There was no one else out there by us. With my mp3 tunes, the sun, my dog Buddy and I played Frisbee and fetch in and out of the surf. I loved laughing and singing to the music, the blue sky, the wonderfully alive feeling. I felt totally recharged afterwards.  The sun is my perfect aphrodisiac. It sure would be nice to be able to share just one such perfect sunny afternoon with someone. Someone with as positive an outlook as I have would be awesome. I would never let that one go…

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Tempt Ya Later!

Tes